Even when you want to be alone you still have that thought which comes that someone will be there after your ME time.
One of these fine days I decided it was because of this;
"It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him."
"This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh"
"There is one alone, and there is not a second; yea, he hath neither child nor brother: yet is there no end of all his labour; neither is his eye satisfied with riches; neither saith he, For whom do I labour, and bereave my soul of good? This is also vanity, yea, it is a sore travail. Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour."
"Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone? And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken. "
I may be sounding all philosophical, but hey, it makes sense. One can never be completely alone and one CANNOT be happy alone.
NO! I'm not advocating for marriage. Far from it. I'm advocating for a FRIEND. A true friend.
Someone who knows who you REALLY are. The one who knows THOSE secrets but will never tell as they feel they would be betraying themselves.
Not just for secrets but the REAL you. Someone who won't give up on trying to make you a better person in their eyes.
Someone who will think of you first each time no matter what the thought is(yep each time)
That someone you can be alone with but still consider yourself to be with no one yet the only person who makes you feel you're a crowd when it's just the two of you.
That someone needn't be just one unit, NO! They can be many people as you just may give up finding the person who can do all that in one person.
For those who are married they’ll tell you that their mate is the closest they have to the perfect friend.
The unmarried are having a blast with that perfect friend until they settle on the next closest.
Whatever the case, FIND that person.
If you cannot find them, BE one.
SOMEONE is looking for YOU.
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Profound. I was just thinking along the same lines the other day as a means of encouraging myself out of the funk I seem to have walked straight into, eyes wide shut.
I believe in Divine Intervention. This is something that occurs when we pray for help. I also believe that the Creator sees the workings of our hearts. In this way our good intentions are noticed.
It is always The Intention that matters.
I may fail, I may mess up, but if my intention was good and pure then things will right themselves. I believe we are guided in the spirit realm especially if we ask for help. I always tell my friends that often God's greatest gifts come in the heaviest disguises.
How many times I have wanted something SO badly only to realise looking back it was not in my best interests. Things which can appear as disasters to us at the time can turnout later to be blessings in disguise!
Likewise, sometimes we are given what we thought we wanted only to discover it did not make us happy. When these things happen there is always a major life lesson attached.God is love and love is God.Jehovah made us in His image so it's part of us to love and be loved.It's hard maybe impossible to find the perfect partner but it's possible to make the perfect relationship with someone you have in mind(optimistic view of love).
You have done good in your life you deserve blessings.
Whatever decissions you made before don't regret.You made all decissions based on your background and that is correct.
God gave us free will and so we operate freely (within the bounds of the life we have chosen).When one door closes another one opens.
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