Truth or idle

There’s a time when I ask myself why people bother trying to be who they are not
I think this is mainly when these people cannot live with the truth
Many people struggle with the truth
Accepting it and offering it
Regarding accepting it, it’s not that much an issue coz facts will be facts whether they take it or not
What I have an issue with is when people do not offer the truth-most of the time
We’ve gotten to a situation where compromise is the order of the day
Sometimes I think people feel they just have to say something and go ahead and put forward a notion that they don’t believe in
Days later when asked about their stance, they deny ever being thus minded
Imagine!
People now say things for the sake of being part of a conversation and you have to confirm if they’re serious about what they just said
It’s infuriating whne you have to almost prove that they did say what they said
Then shyly they say’yes, I said so but I just said it, I didn’t mean it”
Seriously, what needs to be done so that you have a decent conversation that you don’t go home worrying over coz u’re not sure if the person was in truth mode or just talking mode