Paired up

This is the paired up world I live in.
NB- I’m talking of work coz that’s where I spend most of my time
At head office there were four single people two guys & two girls
As of two weeks ago only the girls remain single
I’m one of those two
The guys went and paid their lobola and they’re on the way to the paired up world
At home there were two of us singletons and guess what-
I’m the only one left
She eloped
So everyone expects that I’ll be next
Yeah all right, I’ll be next
But not when they expect coz I also don’t know when
I really cannot make a conscious decision on when to get married coz that’s just how it is
I’m way past the expected marriage age and everyone believes I’m worried
I’m not
At times I actually worry over their worry coz it’s just too much
My time just is not yet
Soon, but not yet
Tough it tarry, it will not tarry
Till now I’ve been blessed to learn from other people how not to start a marriage
How to keep it alive
Things to avoid when in comes to family issues and your new family
Most of all you could dream of about marriage, I’ve learnt as an observer
I guess I’m just being prepared for the marriage I’ve always desired
That built on God’s love and principles
It’s a mission finding the right guy
Best is not to look for that guy
He’ll find you when the time is right
If you look for him you just may end up stuck with a guy who was meant to just pass by and leave you with some lesson on relationships
If you commit to the guy chances are he may still leave you with the lesson and a divorce certificate
My views totally
I’m waiting for that guy for as long as it takes and when he comes I’ll be the Proverbs 31 wife he’s been praying for
For now, I wait and do all that I can as a single person for the Lord
It’s only now that I can serve Him as a single person so why loose time chasing for a guy who’s looking for me?